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HOW TO BECOME A
BETTER HUMAN BEING |
Question :
What do you see as the most important aspect of ourselves that needs
awakening if we are to be a better human being?
Serge: Undoubtedly, it is the heart, for it is in our hearts
that the divine can communicate most directly to us. It is in our
hearts that we may receive grace and healing. It is in our hearts
that we can experience joy, ecstasy, love, feel awe, and experience
ourselves as an integral part of all that is. If we are open
hearted, a space is there enabling us to be spontaneous, brave ,
warm, true and honourable and we will much more easily be able to
accept and respect ourselves and so accept and respect others and,
most importantly, our planet. Indeed, I see our hearts as containing
the ‘spiritual fuel’ that will allow us to resolve conflicts,
transform destructivity and generally enable us to be part of the
solution, as opposed to being part of the problems, of our world.
Teilhard de Chardin, that great theologian and visionary thinker,
writing in the 1940’s, suggested that there was more power in an
open heart than in the atom bomb. I recognise this and see our
hearts as being our greatest weapon of mass construction and believe
that if only more of us learned to open our hearts, that we would be
able to have peace in the world and that all the insane, crazy,
stupid activities which we heartless or small-hearted humans like to
do like flying planes into large towers, fighting wars, creating
dictatorships to rule us, spending billions on weaponry while
millions starve, consuming more than we need, destroying our
environment, and generally behaving in greedy, rapacious, selfish
and narrow minded ways, would stop!
All these behaviours are symptomatic of a deficient heart life. I
don’t think our world will transform as a result of a change of
mind. I think it needs a change of heart. Or rather, an opening of
heart. We cannot have the one without the other. However, for such
an opening to take place, we need to work at it. It is not a
‘given.’ Indeed, one of the best ways to learn how not to be so
egoic, is to put effort into opening our hearts. The subtler
vibration of the heart space begins to evaporate the denser one of
ego space.
If our spirituality manifests not in what we know (how many sacred
texts we can quote), but in how we behave and in how compassionately
we treat others, especially those who may be very different to us,
this is all dependant upon the health of our hearts. To a healthy
hearted person, no one is an enemy. If our hearts are open, we will
feel free and vital and the most natural thing in the world will be
for us to wish for that condition to manifest all around us. If our
hearts are in ‘bad shape’ or closed, our perspective will radically
alter and it is all too likely that we will see the world through a
glass darkly, succumb to despair, bitterness and depression and so
project all sorts of negatives onto it which do not in actuality
exist. Thus to believe we can be authentically spiritual without
being open-hearted is like believing we can play cricket without a
bat and ball!
Because I feel so
strongly on this matter, I have made several
CDs on the topic
of the Heart which can be ordered from my website. I also teach a
one-year training group entitled
Living
from the Heart, where we learn to heal and purify and deepen
as well as broaden, our heart life.
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